Closer

have you ever noticed? that broken families are much more closer than families that are perfect. and what i meant about perfect and broken is:

Broken - only have mom OR dad.
Perfect - has both the parents.

why do i say so? coz this is what i observed. and im not saying ppl who has perfect family is not close, but the percentage is really low. if you're one of the lucky ones. then its really good for you. ok back to my topic, why do i say so?:

well, simply because they are going through problems together as a family. and they will tend to talk a lot about what happened, and how did they become as perfect and then broken family. me and my mom talked a lot about my dad. so even i dun really communicate with my dad a lot last time, i already know what kind of person he is.

and the children will have to help their mom or dad out, in doing chores and stuff. so naturally they will become closer. like my family, we argued a lot in the past days. and though my family wasnt perfect to begin with, as a child, i dont really like both my parents. coz, when my dad come back, he will go to bed. and when my mom is home she will scold and punish us for not cleaning up the house. until my dad left, things got worse, and when my mom started to get sick, even more worse. and when she recovered, things got a lot better. she starts to joke, laugh, talk. not much of arguements now.

we learn to communicate, slove problems, and share or own feelings about each other too. so i guess having a broken family is not so bad after all. LOL. at least, im really happy now. and of course, if having a really nice dad would be great too.