Head Pushing

Yesterday i shouted at a friend of mine because she was pushing my head as a joke, i didnt mean to, but i was pretty pissed. It made me wonder whether i did wrong or not.

so what happened was, i dont really remember what topic we were talking about, then she started to push my head once. so i just asked. "why la you push my head..." she said "cause i love you..."
i know, very immature of her, and this friend is actually older than me, Now, i know age does not measure maturity. but i did expect her to be somewhat more mature than me. My own mistake i guess,

Anyways, i was ok with it at first, she stopped for a little while, then for no reason she started it again, this time i was a lil angry cause she did it repeatedly. so i said "eh.. stop it la..." but she didnt. and pushed her hand away, Now, i do expect a normal functioning human being to get the message that ur friend is annoyed already when this gesture was made. but she still didnt stop. so i yelled at her "STOP IT LA!" and guess what, we were in a pub. Embarassing? A little.

But i was too pissed to even feel the embarassment. Don't know if thats a good thing. but i can see that she knows im pissed. But wanted to loosen up the tension between us, she attempted to push my head again (WHAAAT?!). this time i caught her hand and throw it away. and gave her a bitch face. then it had me thinking, what the hell is wrong with her? why didnt she get it? i mean most people would have apologized when they get yelled at. because they would know that they crossed the line, or is it me? did i look like i was joking around too with my angry face? did i look easy to bully? like an angry chipmunk? why didnt she take me seriously? why does she keep picking on me? i dont mind all the teasing and all, Cause i know its just good fun! but please, DO NOT PUSH MY HEAD.

I'm quite a tolerable person (i think)... i think there would be a few things i definately can't tolerate, but so far i can only think of this. Head Pushing. maybe its just me, but i feel its very disrespectful, i've never done it to another person before, i've seen it happened, and i dont like it. i'm okay with kids doing it, cause you can teach and tell them its not right to do so. and most of the time they listen, its not okay to do that to anyone, even people younger than you. Cause everyone deserves respect. but for an adult, I'd expect you to already know that. for someone who is already working, if you don't do it on your colleagues, why the hell did you do it to your friends?

So what do you think? am i being too sensitive over this? is jokingly pushing heads okay? is it really just me?

Random "Whats your ideal guy" Questionnaire

So, i was actually quite stressed to update, mainly i dont know what to update about because recently, my life has been nothing but a routine. So i just decided to shamelessly take this questionnaire from a friend's blog. i hope you dont mind, you know who you are ;)

1. Do you need him/her to be good looking?

Decent looking will do. but yea, i would hope he is good looking.

2. Smart?

Yes. 

3. Preferred age?

None. i dont really mind how old he is, just not TOO young.

4. Preferred height?
he just needs to be taller than me, maybe 1 head taller.

5. How about sense of humor?

Yes please.

6. How about piercings?

Uhh... i would prefer not. but ears should be fine.

7. Accepts you for who you are?

Yeap. definately.

8. Pink hair?

NOOOOO!

9. Mushy or not?

Not too mushy..

10. Thin or fat?
Medium size

11. Black, Brown or White (skin color)?

Erm.. geez, i really dont wanna sound racist.

12. Long hair or short hair?

Short.

13. Plastic or metal?

Human please. 

14. Smells good?

YES!

15. Smoker?

No.

16. Drinker?

Yes, as long as he is not an alcoholic.

17. Girl/Boy-next-door type?

Yes.

18. Muscular?
A little muscle is fine. not too buff.
19. Plays piano?

I dont mind.

20. Plays bass and/or acoustic guitar?
I dont mind.

21. Plays violin?
I dont mind.

22. Sings very good?

Yes please.

23. Vain?

Hahahaha! no.

24. With glasses?

Preferably not, unless he actually looks good with it. :p

25. With braces?
 No preference 

26. Shy type?

Not TOO shy.

27. Rebel or good boy/girl?

In between!

28. Active or passive?

Active

29. Tight or bomb?

what the heck is tht?!

30. Singer or dancer?

Both can?

31. stunner?

no idea whats that.

32. Hiphop?

No.

33. Earrings?

Dont mind.

34. Mr/Ms. count-my-ex-girlfriends-until-you-drop?

erm. as long as im the last i guess?

35. Dimples?
Dont mind.

36. Bookworm?

No.

37. Mr/Ms. love letter?
Yes. That will be so romantic.

38. Playful?
 Yes.

39. Flirt?

Yes.

40. Poem writer?

Once in a while would be nice :)

41. Serious?

Yes, When he should be.

42. Campus crush?
 Yes.

43. Painter?
No preference.

44. Religious?
 Christian.

45. Someone who likes to tease people?
Yes please.
46. Computer games geek? Or internet freak?
Just not the kind when he doesnt even notice you when you're there. unless you stand in front of him.
47. Speaks 20 languages?

No.

48. Loyal or faithful?

Both.

49. good kisser?
Yes.
50. loves children??

Yups! 

Okay. so this concludes my post of the day for now. As you can see, My ideal guy only exist in dreams and fairy tales. heh. 

Hello.

Yes. i still exist. 

So sorry for taking my own sweet time to blog. i do have an excuse, unfortunately not a very good one. 

last year, i took my laptop to repair it because the hinge was broken, after waiting for months, they still havent repair anything yet. then i got frustrated and demanded my laptop back, which i then found out its all the way in Singapore. 

so meanwhile, they loan me another laptop. which is super cool, you can actually switch it to a tablet and its touchscreen too. but i honestly prefer my own laptop even if its with Windows 7.. and i forgot to save my blog as a bookmark to remind me to update. Hence why i did not do so in a very long time.

So, let me briefly update to no one who is reading. LOLS

i went to bangkok on feb for 3 days. it was nice. but i didnt like it coz it was too much like KL. except shopping was cheaper. and im not much of a shopper myself. i love buying clothes. but since im fat i have limited choice of clothings.

and im planing for another trip somewhere around this year as well... Where?? hmmm.... wait for it...................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................NEW YORK CITY! whoop! whoop! im hella excited! cant you tell?? LOL! this would be my first time travelling on my own. im taking a super big step and stepping out of my comfort zone.. well, not alone exactly, i have friends who lives in New York, and he has kindly offered me a place to stay and bring me around. but still.. given that i usually only travel with my family. this is kinda big for me. 1 thing checked off my bucket list! 

Also, i have been working, the pay is good. but i dont like the working hours. i only took the job just because my family needs me too. but im actually starting to like this job. i only hate the shifts. oh well, i should just focus on the positive side and work hard! and earn more money so i can travel more! yes. 

So yea 2015 has been good to me so far..... and its only the beginning of it. Lets hope it'll be great as time goes by! Good Night.