Yesterday i shouted at a friend of mine because she was pushing my head as a joke, i didnt mean to, but i was pretty pissed. It made me wonder whether i did wrong or not.
so what happened was, i dont really remember what topic we were talking about, then she started to push my head once. so i just asked. "why la you push my head..." she said "cause i love you..."
i know, very immature of her, and this friend is actually older than me, Now, i know age does not measure maturity. but i did expect her to be somewhat more mature than me. My own mistake i guess,
Anyways, i was ok with it at first, she stopped for a little while, then for no reason she started it again, this time i was a lil angry cause she did it repeatedly. so i said "eh.. stop it la..." but she didnt. and pushed her hand away, Now, i do expect a normal functioning human being to get the message that ur friend is annoyed already when this gesture was made. but she still didnt stop. so i yelled at her "STOP IT LA!" and guess what, we were in a pub. Embarassing? A little.
But i was too pissed to even feel the embarassment. Don't know if thats a good thing. but i can see that she knows im pissed. But wanted to loosen up the tension between us, she attempted to push my head again (WHAAAT?!). this time i caught her hand and throw it away. and gave her a bitch face. then it had me thinking, what the hell is wrong with her? why didnt she get it? i mean most people would have apologized when they get yelled at. because they would know that they crossed the line, or is it me? did i look like i was joking around too with my angry face? did i look easy to bully? like an angry chipmunk? why didnt she take me seriously? why does she keep picking on me? i dont mind all the teasing and all, Cause i know its just good fun! but please, DO NOT PUSH MY HEAD.
I'm quite a tolerable person (i think)... i think there would be a few things i definately can't tolerate, but so far i can only think of this. Head Pushing. maybe its just me, but i feel its very disrespectful, i've never done it to another person before, i've seen it happened, and i dont like it. i'm okay with kids doing it, cause you can teach and tell them its not right to do so. and most of the time they listen, its not okay to do that to anyone, even people younger than you. Cause everyone deserves respect. but for an adult, I'd expect you to already know that. for someone who is already working, if you don't do it on your colleagues, why the hell did you do it to your friends?
So what do you think? am i being too sensitive over this? is jokingly pushing heads okay? is it really just me?
