How Dare YOU!

i know i said i didnt want to post any rants, but i am seriously pissed..

Ok, here goes,

There's this guy, i will not reveal his real name, so lets called him G, he is a very annoying person. the worse thing is, he is my uncle's so called partner? i guess, but i dont really give a damn about him because i dont work for him.

and the only reason im working in this shop is just to mainly help out. at least thats what my mom told me what my uncle said. i do not know anything about business, or retail shops, or DISPLAY! so this G, once in a while will come over to the shop and lecture a few things, the first few times i understood what he wants. at least i got a hang of it. he always say he wants to make displays GRAND!

last few days, he came again, and you know what?? everytime, EVERYTIME he comes, im doing work, im actually doing work. i have to do stuff like inventory, stock check, and like what items i sold and how many of them, and since all my data was all gone because my external hard disk broke, i had to start from scratch. i had to make the format, and formula all over again, and key in all the item codes and descriptions again, and this shop has A LOT of stocks, and i get dizzy really fast when doing those stuff.

so in the morning i was printing all the sales report stuff, and he came, and of course, i had to pause. BECAUSE of him, and since i bought a new lappy (yay!)
i do it in my laptop most of the time.. so, he, i think, thought that i was playing games, or Facebook-ing, or watching something la. problem is i wasnt, and he starts lecturing, about our space problem saying u have to save as much space as you could in this shop because it is small. and gave us an estimation of how far apart the displays should be, and his conclusion, was as long as they can pass through SIDE-WAYS is more than enough space for customers to cross. after i heard that i was like WTH?! saying we have to be like Hong Kong and Japan countries that really saves space, in a way is Pasar Malam style la, last time he complained that our one area of our space is like Pasar Malam... And now he wants pasar malam?! How GRAND pasar malam is?!

And the worse part is after he came and left, he complained to my uncle saying this place is a mess, and then said that i have been playing on my computer... im not saying that i havent done that, i do facebook, i do play games, i do watch movies / Running man sometimes. it was only when i need a break from facing too much boxes and numbers sometimes i walk around the shop and serve customers as a break time la. And there are also times that i got to finish my work early i have nothing left to do. and im using my laptop... but when work suddenly comes up, i stop what i was doing as a free time and do it. HOW DARE HE! He's not even my boss. im already not complaining about the salary and the no off days. He has NO RIGHTS to boss me around at all..

but he told my uncle i KEPT watching. if i was doing those stuff when he was here and he complain to my uncle, fine i have nothing to say but to admit la, but i wasnt even doing that.. i switched on my lappy and went straight to my work file. and he somemore simply say stuff like this, and my mom was scolded by my uncle. of course my mom sure scold back la. my mom wont let anyone else bully us. hahaha...

and he expects so much of us like he freaking pays us! he doesnt even know that i dont have an off day, and he certainly dont know my salary, why should i work so freaking hard?? now the situation is, uncle owns the shop, but he doesnt know much about the stuff here, and its like i own the shop, but its not mine, i had customers asking how i achieved a shop like this at such a young age.. what the heck, is that even possible for me? LOL. or whenever my mom is here they thought its my mom's.

There are times i dont know what to do with the pile of stocks they ask me to order, because it was too huge for me to handle, and i somehow, Thank God, got through it, without a bit of help from my uncle. how can he now, take some man's word and thinks that i am like that?! and it was 3 mountains of stock, when i say mountain, i meant like as big as 3 statues of someone much taller and bigger than me. i had to do it all by myself, boxes after boxes, and of course, i only had 1 staff then, but when it came he was on leave. and my cousin that came wasnt much help, because all these are unfamiliar to them, which i dont blame them at all when i thought about it, at first i have to admit i was a little annoyed, but come to think of it, i cant blame them either. anyways it took me 3 days to finish everything. that was how bad it was.

I seriously would like G to come and manage everything on his own, with my pay, with no off day for half a year, at least... and with no knowledge of all these stuff. lets see how easy it is for him. and if he can treat customers the way i treat them.. most customers come back because they like the way my staffs, my mom, and me serves them. to the extend that when G came last few months ago, he thought that the customers was our relatives, im not bragging. but that is really how i trained my staff to serve customers, and how good we treat them.. i should run a restaurant instead. =p

i have so much to do, my cousin who thought that i just come in and open shop and then im free to do anything i want, when she knew i had to do so much she also taken a back. and she said she had no idea that i had to do all of these. i have friends asking me out at night but i cant due to my working hours, and when they asked, i explained, and all of them said the exact same thing to me, "girl, you have to sue your uncle."

even on CNY, my other cousin's wife knew about my working condition, and she was shocked, and she said it was unacceptable. and when other relatives said to her, "Aiyo, relatives ma, must help out lo.." she replied with a "SO WHAT?!"

I am not trying to show how good am i or saying its not my fault for anything,  but its just that i am pissed that, when i do something wrong, he complains about it, even scolds my mom for it. but when im working as hard as a cow. he doesnt know, and he doesnt care. my thinking is if he only knew how hard i worked, would he still agree / stand with his partner G?! since as a family, i helped you out, shouldnt you also as family have full trust in me that i only do those stuff to have a break? or just to relief stress sometimes. why do you only take the bad stuff that people say about me, but never care for the good stuff i do? why others can see it, but you cant? if you want someone to be so freaking perfect, hire someone else to do my job. other relatives said that by hiring me, he picked up gold, as in, where in the world would someone take this kind of job, with this kind of pay, and with no off day?

i feel much better.. hahaha.

My Boring CNY

안녕하세요 Dear Bloggie!

So, I only had 2 days of rest day, but it was no rest at all mainly because i try to cramp up all the things i wanna do for my off day, in 1/2 a day. yes, you heard me. =p

So, as usual, every year my house will have a lot of visitors so on the 1st day of CNY i couldnt go anywhere.

same as the 2nd day, but luckily for me, the relatives came and left early this year, so my sis and i went to The Curve and Ikano. Just because some of my to do list was Shopping and Ikea Meatballs. so i only manage to do 2, still happy though, i spent the whole afternoon till evening walking all around. it was fun but still tiring.

the picture above was the 3rd day of CNY

NOTE: What we did, was not included in my "Want-To-Do-List"

I was drunk, but not drunk like too drunk like you see in the movies

i was a bit tipsy, i did laugh a bit for no reason though.

haha.

My cousin however, got slightly more drunk than me, and start hitting me and sleeping on leg. 

She's dangerous.

Anyways, my Want-To-Do List was:

• Shopping
• Eat Ikea Meatballs
• Bake the Lemon Tart that i learn from the internet
• Go out have lunch/hang out with friends
• Go to Sephora and buy my Naked Pallete
• Play Left 4 Dead!
• Go Karaoke!
• Eat Sukiya
• Travel to Korea, Singapore, Sabah, Thailand!
• Make Korean Dishes from the Kimchi I made
• Lie in my bed for as long as i want!
• Watch a movie in the cinema
• Lastly, Find a Boyfriend. 

Kekekeke! i was just kidding with the Boyfriend thingy.. Seriously, i was really really kidding, stop thinking that it's true. im not that desperate, in fact, i feel that i don't need one right now.

Because i wont have time for him anyways.

Ya, ya, i know i was being a little too adventurous with my list, especially with the traveling part.. But that's just because i dont have an off day!

So yea, thats just it. 

The Brevity Of Life

Hi People~! If there's even anyone who still read this, hahaha... i know i havent update a lot... mainly because i dont have anything special or meaningful to post anyways, and i dont want to do post that i used to like the random stupid things or childish rants that i used to do... hahahaha.. 

Anyways, today i did my quiet time... i have to admit, i dont usually do them at all when i go to church often, but since now i cant go as often as i would want to, i start forcing myself to do quiet time, because i feel it is in this time i need him the most to not stray away from him, because working in Bangsar, well, it has a lot of temptations! and recently, i have been very very grumpy if i dont do my quiet time, some how, reading the bible, calms me down, and neutralize my mood.. maybe because working everyday makes me grumpy.. 

so, going to my topic of the day, The Brevity of Life, well, my english wasnt so good, so i had to go online to search for the meaning, it means the short time of human life, and yes i agree, well, this statement mildly hit me, because, i have been through a lot a lot of funerals, ever since i was young, and as i grow up, death doesnt seem like a threat at all.. i cannot recall how many funerals i have went, but only 3 affected me a lot, 

1. Raymond's Funeral, i wasnt close to him in anyway, but he helped my family a lot, when my mom was sick, and we had no one to work to bring food to the table, he helped us a lot.. i only knew when my mom recovered and suddenly wanted to give him money, and i was like, Why? and thats when she tell me the whole story, he did this in a very secretive way, i think, not many ppl even knew he did it. 

2. My dad, i hated that man all my life, and i even tell myself that when i see him, i will scold him and blame him for leaving us and never even came back to see us once, and also not even visiting my mom in the hospital. but when we reunited through a funeral of his eldest son, (his first family) my sis ran into his arms and i was just like when i was young, hiding behind my mom.. because the image i was had inside my head of him was, black hair, rather tall, handsome, but that man i see that day was, a little hunch backed, full of white and grey hair, and crying like no body's business when he saw my sis, and cried even harder when he saw me. Anyways, to cut the story short, we forgave and forget, and spent a lot of time together until he died.

3. Of course, for people who knows me Jen Ruw, well, i wont say much about him, because nothing matters anymore, even though he cause a lot of pain, anger and hatred.. but i Thank God, that he died, i know it sounds really bad, but if he hadn't, i would have never forgiven the both of them, i know i have my faults in the failed relationship, but saying giving me time to change and then 1 month later breaking up with me. and then 1 week later hearing rumors with another girl, doesnt help even a bit, (if there is 1 person who can change their bad habits in 1 month. pls introduce to me, i would really want to learn from that person.) he has many brother's to stand by his side, but i dont really care, but ever since he died, his real reason of breaking up with me, just slowly reveals it to me, and i gotta say, i am very dissapointed... dont get me wrong, i dont hate him. i forgave, but i still once in a while remember the times when he first started how happy i was and then would sigh on how it ends. Hahaha... but i still care for his mom, because she was very very nice to me.. 

So, since these 3 affected me so much, the conversation of death, is a very calm topic to me, im not sure whether calm is the word for that but, everytime when my friends or relatives we talk about death, they seemed so uptight, and in disbelief and keep saying touch wood... and i wanted to answer them back this: you think touching the wood would really save you from death?or even prolong your life? and why are you not accepting the fact, that one day no matter how old you are, you WILL die?? 

I saw a grave of a baby girl while going to visit my grandpa's grave, my ex, died even before he can make a family of his own which he wanted so so bad. and by the way, truthfully, i dont know whether he died because like what everybody said that God called him home, or is because he drank too much alcohol? because even though we broke up, we still remain friends, and chat online until very very very late, and all the sudden he told me he is craving for alcohol, and went out to the nearest shop to buy some. and with a hole in his heart since young, i seriously dont know the true cause of his death. I will ask God when i die.. and now the latest, a kid, missing and thrown into the river, and now they found his decomposed body...

So since we all are gonna die, why not just enjoy life in a healthy way, i dont mean to go encourage people to go clubs and drink till you're wasted, or go do crime because Y.O.L.O.. How i behave, and treat customers can also glorify God, in a way, i do not know how, but im sure i can, so yea, i have to control my mood, and not be so grumpy. so hopefully, one day i can get an off day, to start enjoying my life. hahha.. 

Offended? well, dont be, this is just my opinion.. i am not Emo btw.

You Can't Control The Length Of Your Life,

But You Can Control Its Depth.

by Our Daily Bread

Datin SO WHAT?!

Okay, This happened just a while ago, these 2 customer (Mother & Daughter) was walking towards the shop, and somehow, i already got that feeling of "Pleaseeeee dont come in!!!" but unfortunately they did, and the Mother was a very very rude person, that later i found out from her credit card, she was a Datin.

Anyways, the story goes like this, she was very impatient and wanting to leave the shop, which i gladly want her too, but because her daughter was shopping for organizing stuff for her new apartment, she has to stay, so, the Mother ask one of the Myanmar staff in the shop asking whether do we have big mugs,

Mother: Do you have big mugs? (weird accent)
Staff: Sorry, Excuse me?
Mother: OMG! do you want to sell some thing to us wan a not?! You're Standing there Dreaming!
Staff : Sorry, What did you say??
Mother: What? What?! Nothing!

and then she walks away, so with no one serving that customer, unfortunately i had to go.. and she was asking a lot of things, and she likes me A LOT! (which is a bad thing for me..) and then she starts to say:

Mother: This shop needs someone like you to stand at the front!
Me:  ahhh.. hahaha *smiles*
Mother: just now that boy! he is an idiot! he should'nt be standing at the front, he should'nt even be working here la.. he is dreaming!
Me: *stiff smile* its not that he is dreaming, its just that he is not Local, he is from Myanmar, he's english is not so good
Mother: OMG! Myanmar *begins to be racist*
Me: *forces a smile* (which is so damn difficult!)

Seriously?! just because you're rich and you have the title "Datin" gives u the green card to be rude and disrespectful?! Though she wasnt scolding me or saying about me, but the staff that she scolded is very hardworking, the only thing is that his english is slow, not everyone is perfect okay...

and then my mom walks in the shop and she ask me who is my mom, so i told her she is my mother, and she was like Oh!! thinking that we own the shop, and she start complaining to my mother about the staff, and says that she likes me a lot and that im very sweet, (it is because i have to)

Mother: Madam, your boy is so stupid, he really is and idiot, he shouldnt be working here,
Mom: Smiles, tries to explain what i explained to her
Mother: yes i know, but he is dreaming, i was so angry! I like her *points at me* you know who am i? i'm not a normal person u know? Darling, look at my card, see whats my name..
Me: Datin bla bla bla..
Mother: ah see, when i come and buy things i want good service, people who can understand english! not like that bugger..

and then she said the next time she will come again, and she wants me to serve her. my expression darken.. i really hope she wouldnt come back...

The daughter however was kind, sweet and polite, i wonder how did she get a sweet daughter when her attitude is like that.. she even rush her daughter and scolded her to Shut Up in front of me.. and when i look to her daughter she was like O.O|||

Rich or poor, we are all still HUMAN! its not like when you're dead you get to keep your money and your "Datin" title! I myself however, wants to credit myself of how good my acting was.. forcing out a smile to someone u really dont like at all is super super duper duper HARD! i didnt even know how i got through it until the end!

I'm happy that i manage to serve this demanding woman, but felt really bad and angry for the Myanmar boy, he's really kind and hardworking, he even cooks Myanmar traditional food for me, which was so YUMMY!! i couldnt even count how many type of their country's dishes i've tried!

People i can't stand

Hey Blog, seriously, i dunno why am i still updating when i know no one is reading... =.= im pathetic...

aaanywaysss... as u can already read about my topic, the people i can't stand is fussy and nosy and touchy people... i don't hate them or anything, but seriously, its really none of your business okay. I'm not saying like friends asking you what's wrong is nosy, im saying strangers / colleagues who are not so close to you at all, but all the sudden has interest in you. and i REALLY thought that in this world, the fussiest person would be my mom, but someone actually who is NOT my mom fussing me... =.=

Okay, i admit, there is someone in the shop that is like that, i don't hate her, i just sometimes can't stand that her mouth can't rest for a few minutes... let me tell you her Nosy-ness part,

The Nosiness 
i have sort of a back-ache lately, due to the chairs in the shop, are too high so i always have to crunch my back when i sit, so now, it feels really sore, and painful, like, the veins keep pulling the left side of my waist.. so it really hurts wherever and however i sit, so naturally, my mood wasnt so good, and she would ask, whats wrong? that i am fine with it, so i just told her, about my backache, and she would say OH! ME TOO!! and she would talk and talk and talk, another thing is whatever i do, she would lean over me and see what im doing. like seriously? i CAN feel your breast pushing on my back ok, and plus, is there no privacy? even though, there is nothing private about my facebook friends or my facebook status, or even when im serving customers, she would look at my laptop.. and see what im was looking at.. come on..
just what ever i do, she is like my personal CCTV. =.=

The Touchiness
This person, would, SUDDENLY touch, or rub my back or my forearm, excuse me, you're not my mom you know? and for me, im okay with skin-ship, IF we're close enough, i always hug and kiss my mom on the cheek in public, in fact, i like doing that, but that's only because im super close with my mom, even best friends, in high school, we hold hands / link arms while walking, for some ppl its weird, but im ok with it, because im close to her. im not comfortable, with strangers suddenly hugging, or rubbing my back. No one is comfortable with it =.=.. she should be aware of that..

The Fussiness
She is REALLY VERY FUSSY!! we have to do stock take every once in a while, and everytime we so its gonna be tiring, and frustrating, because there might be something missing or miss counted, and u have to take everything out and count AGAIN, so since we are all so new, we need her help to teach us how to do, before we can even hands-on to do something, we have to listen to her grandmother's story of how she did it last time when she works in Pavillion, and then fine, when we finally started to do, and finished, she would start saying something like

Her: so now do you get how to do a not?
Me: Yes...
Her: Easy right? the method i teach you?
Me: Yes...
Her: Ahhh, i last time do until die ah in pavilion... bla bla bla bla bla bla bla and she repeats herself on the grandmother's story again

and after a few more minutes, AFTER she stopped, she would ask again? so can cope right? easy right? and i would answer back, Yes, and then she would talk about the pavilion story again, and again and again.. and she is fussing on me WHILE im checking my stock on the system or physically... i need ear plugs...

and back to my backache part, she also has it and she keeps saying, oh very painful, every FREAKING time she sees me! she was resting her head on the table (Sleeping) and once in a while she wakes up and sees me and say, Oh, so Painful... she sleeps and wakes up 5 times that moment and repeating the "Oh, So Painful" like seriously, i heard you... and what do u suppose me to do? im also suffering from mine, you dont see me going Oh So Painful the whole day...
it was so irritating...

maybe most of you would tell me, why dont you just tell her that you dont like what she is doing to you, (like what my mom said to me) well, first of all, i dont want to be rude, or seem like i have no manners, because i dont have a gentle way of saying "can you pls stop touching me? its really uncomfortable... " or "can you stop talking for a while? im trying to work here... " or "Do you mind? pls dont look at whatever im doing."

I am okay with her now, and she IS helpful at times, and i dont want to give her the wrong idea of "i hate her" or im being arrogant. and there is no way i can put words "gently". so yea... im doomed!

Good Bye, and See you again next year.

Hi people! I'm back...

i have been wanting to post this, but due to my lack of sleep everyday i get really forgetful nowadays, just to update, My grandma went to England. and she will be there for FREAKING 5 MONTHS!!!!!! i seriously took her for granted, not until she is away, i only knew how easy my life was when she was around, now not only that i have to do housework at night when i come home from work.. which is tiring, and also had to drag myself out for dinner sometimes. and also there's time where i have to cook in the middle of the night for tmr's lunch... =.=|| working everyday is seriously not easy... im forcing myself to wake up even on weekends.. and knowing that i have to work on Sats and Suns makes me even more tired automatically. And yes, working here now has made my social life crash down like an airplane crash accident..

I look like a zombie now... My eye bags and dark circles are very seriously obvious.. though it was obvious before, but now its worse, and yes, i still standby my saying of "Eye Bags Are Cute" but dark circles are horrible... T.T i look so ugly, that i wanted to make up everyday to work, but every morning, i decided to use the make up time to sleep Zzzzzzz.....

And now since, sales is over, lesser people comes in, and sales aren't good at all, but hopefully we will make a lot in October 26th~! which is our upcoming sales! i hope we reach higher than our daily target sales... ^^
anyways, i really learn a lot working here, made new friends... i go to the bank everyday until all of the teller there recognizes me..LOL

Oh Shoot..... I'm off my topic again... =.= anyways, today, my topic is suppose to be about my cousin April Chang Chiaw Er.. so sorry Dear, I've been wanting to post this for quite sometime... i'll make sure you see this post =)

we have been spending a lot of time since she came back ^^ and truthfully, when she is about to go back, im actually quite sad, and i wish she could stay and never go back to russia... NEVERRRRRRR!!!  So Please come back on your next holiday... Or i will fly there and drag you back here.. MUAHAHAHHAHAHAHA

Anyway~ these are the pictures we took together, though not all of them, coz some are with you =.=.. FB tag me yea.. Missing you. Be safe and take care. Muacks~!

Jeanie, Me and You!

Ready to bake cakes!

You look gorgeous all because of me! =p

Helping to set up in Live It Up Bangsar!

Love this Picture!

ISH... why do you have to go back....

Our Newspaper nails!

Nautical and Pac Man-icure!

Crack-Cracady-Crack-Crackle Nails

The night before you go back

We look alike here ^^

 

Awesome girls with mustache XD

so do you wanna see how i look like now? LOL! let me show you...

Last Week....

NOW!

If anyone of you cant see a difference... you need to get an eye check up...Oh My Dark circles... GO AWAYYYYY~~!!! the more tired i am, the more i want to persevere on... maybe until when i couldn't take it? Anyways, Apparently im quite good in sales, no i did not compliment myself, My Aunty complimented me to my grandma saying that im very good in explaining products, ^^ me is happy... i will continue to work even harder! =)  (not because of the compliment okie... =.=)

Alright... thats it..
I'll update when i remember...
hehe... no promises..

Live It Up

Hey People~!

Yes, i know i havent been updating like i promised too.. but.. i've been meaning to update okay.. its just that im just too tired... if some of you who don't know, i have already start working...

BYE BYE FREEDOM!!!!!!  ='(

Anyways, i'm working with my Uncle now, at his new shop! called Live It Up in Bangsar. and yes, it is so far away, but do come by and have a look if anyone of you are near =)

well, the good and bad thing about this job is:

Good : i dont have Monday Blues~! ^^

Bad : I HAVE TO WORK EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!!!! Sat, Sun and PH.. no off day for me, but other staffs has... i envy them...

since it so unfair, why do i still choose to work for my uncle right?
well, its a long long story, my family is always in debt with my uncle, how? ever since my mom is so sick in the hospital, he has been taking care of us, he comes every twice a month for dinner with my Grandma, there's a lot of things he did for us, never complaining that we're too troublesome.. he never ask for anything in return, until now, he just asked us to help take care of his shop, how can we even say no? but even though i dont get any off days, i still feel happy working here, i get to learn even more new things, about household stuff..

but when i first agreed to work for him, the first thing i worried so much about is Church, what am i suppose to do if i can't go to church, God works in AMAZING WAYS! i found a church, and it is EXACTLY OPPOSITE MY SHOP! BANGSAR GOSPEL CENTRE! so when u found this church, you will definitely find me.. Truthfully, when i found this church, i had goosebumps, yes i have been praying for Him to make a way for me, and i guess, i did kinda underestimate His power, i thought it would be hard for me to attend any churches.. But He made it so convenient that i kinda imagine that God is saying "Muahahahaha! you cant make any excuses now!" and plus, when i agreed to work with my uncle, i was thinking if this is also God's Plan for me. but since he provided a church so near to the shop, i guess the answer is very obvious.

anyways, Thank you for bearing with my Cheong Hei-ness, i shall show you pictures of da shop now~!

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