Hey Blog, seriously, i dunno why am i still updating when i know no one is reading... =.= im pathetic...
aaanywaysss... as u can already read about my topic, the people i can't stand is fussy and nosy and touchy people... i don't hate them or anything, but seriously, its really none of your business okay. I'm not saying like friends asking you what's wrong is nosy, im saying strangers / colleagues who are not so close to you at all, but all the sudden has interest in you. and i REALLY thought that in this world, the fussiest person would be my mom, but someone actually who is NOT my mom fussing me... =.=
Okay, i admit, there is someone in the shop that is like that, i don't hate her, i just sometimes can't stand that her mouth can't rest for a few minutes... let me tell you her Nosy-ness part,
The Nosiness
i have sort of a back-ache lately, due to the chairs in the shop, are too high so i always have to crunch my back when i sit, so now, it feels really sore, and painful, like, the veins keep pulling the left side of my waist.. so it really hurts wherever and however i sit, so naturally, my mood wasnt so good, and she would ask, whats wrong? that i am fine with it, so i just told her, about my backache, and she would say OH! ME TOO!! and she would talk and talk and talk, another thing is whatever i do, she would lean over me and see what im doing. like seriously? i CAN feel your breast pushing on my back ok, and plus, is there no privacy? even though, there is nothing private about my facebook friends or my facebook status, or even when im serving customers, she would look at my laptop.. and see what im was looking at.. come on..
just what ever i do, she is like my personal CCTV. =.=
The Touchiness
This person, would, SUDDENLY touch, or rub my back or my forearm, excuse me, you're not my mom you know? and for me, im okay with skin-ship, IF we're close enough, i always hug and kiss my mom on the cheek in public, in fact, i like doing that, but that's only because im super close with my mom, even best friends, in high school, we hold hands / link arms while walking, for some ppl its weird, but im ok with it, because im close to her. im not comfortable, with strangers suddenly hugging, or rubbing my back. No one is comfortable with it =.=.. she should be aware of that..
The Fussiness
She is REALLY VERY FUSSY!! we have to do stock take every once in a while, and everytime we so its gonna be tiring, and frustrating, because there might be something missing or miss counted, and u have to take everything out and count AGAIN, so since we are all so new, we need her help to teach us how to do, before we can even hands-on to do something, we have to listen to her grandmother's story of how she did it last time when she works in Pavillion, and then fine, when we finally started to do, and finished, she would start saying something like
Her: so now do you get how to do a not?
Me: Yes...
Her: Easy right? the method i teach you?
Me: Yes...
Her: Ahhh, i last time do until die ah in pavilion... bla bla bla bla bla bla bla and she repeats herself on the grandmother's story again
and after a few more minutes, AFTER she stopped, she would ask again? so can cope right? easy right? and i would answer back, Yes, and then she would talk about the pavilion story again, and again and again.. and she is fussing on me WHILE im checking my stock on the system or physically... i need ear plugs...
and back to my backache part, she also has it and she keeps saying, oh very painful, every FREAKING time she sees me! she was resting her head on the table (Sleeping) and once in a while she wakes up and sees me and say, Oh, so Painful... she sleeps and wakes up 5 times that moment and repeating the "Oh, So Painful" like seriously, i heard you... and what do u suppose me to do? im also suffering from mine, you dont see me going Oh So Painful the whole day...
it was so irritating...
maybe most of you would tell me, why dont you just tell her that you dont like what she is doing to you, (like what my mom said to me) well, first of all, i dont want to be rude, or seem like i have no manners, because i dont have a gentle way of saying "can you pls stop touching me? its really uncomfortable... " or "can you stop talking for a while? im trying to work here... " or "Do you mind? pls dont look at whatever im doing."
I am okay with her now, and she IS helpful at times, and i dont want to give her the wrong idea of "i hate her" or im being arrogant. and there is no way i can put words "gently". so yea... im doomed!
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