i find that some ppl are just very disrespectful whether in work, or college friends or even Church friends. of coz not all of them are like that.
i had a friend called me yesterday when i was about to sleep. then she complained about this other friend which is in college. saying this and that, her mouth always hurt ppl and never saying good things or compliment ppl. and thinks herself is perfect. haih.. girls just got a load of problems. well, i can understand girls are very sensitive. OK, im just going to name the victim... erm... Jean. ok? and the rude girl...... Jane! hahahha! alright.
i know this two fellas, in fact im the one who made them friends. That was before i knew Jane is this kind of character, at first all was well, then we started to discover Jane's attitude is seriously wrong. Janes a really pretty girl. Jean, is not,so sorry to say that la, but she's not la. ok. Jane has a bf and her bf means the whole world to her.
so she always thinks she's this Big sister and everyone is following her around. everyone likes her, but actually, no one does. but i still wonder why they mix with her. hmm. then, actually Jane always loves to "stab" Jean, not knowing/ dont care about her limits. so even little little things can piss Jean off, but she doesnt let her anger go, which makes her
small. Jane is like i dunno, maybe she couldnt care less what other people is feeling. Oh, and Jane treats me the same way, but at least i will let her know my limits. when she goes too overboard. i will just give her a HUGE sign to stop or i'll embarass you back.
well, i know that some people are just like that, but to me, it is really unacceptable giving excuses like
"I AM LIKE THAT". its like saying, you have to bare with me. so, i will just continue to stab you because im like that. wth?! people like this never put themselves in that person's shoe, try being embarass everytime, try being laughed at everytime. it doesnt feel good at all. And, being mean, and thinking you are better than anybody makes you have no TRUE friends. why? coz they know you cant keep a secret, or just care about them once in a while. though what jane laughed about jean is a small matter, but she is angry. why? coz feelings grow. and once a person reaches their limit. even small little things can trigger them.
of coz, i do bully ppl as well, make fun of them, but if im overboard i did say sorry. like my church friend PT! but at least, i have some kind of personal connection before i start to bully her, we sleep over together, pillow talk, sharing each others secrets. going out having fun. im not like, i dont really know you, then i start to bombard you with my "jokes" which is really unethical.
im just really angry at Jane and i really pity Jean. oh i remember that, my mom taught me before,
"If Nothing Good Ever Comes Out From Your Mouth, Don't Speak" which is really true. a mouth who doesnt know when to stop. should really shut their mouth at all times.
Because
hurting your friends does not
worthyour
happiness, in fact, making your friends Laugh in
good matter makes your
Joy worth while. i dont even know what im saying. but i hope it makes sense. and, the Bible did warn us about treating ppl right? i forgot where its from but, it goes something like this:
Do to others what you want others to do to you. i remember theres one verse saying something like this la, so if anyone knows where is it from, tell me yea? so, if you like to bully ppl, expect that someday maybe someone will just treat you like that. if you are very straight forward in words that can hurt people, expect the same comments from others. The world is really unfair. so dont soak in your depression too long, or it will pull you deeper ok? =p
Additional:
i forgot to add this. Jane may be pretty. having the best Bf, but just because of the hurtful things she says. uglify her. coz beauty comes from within, not outwards. i pity her future husband.. i truly do. people who always talk bad things or make fun of ppl is never satisfied, never satisfied with their nonsense, and themselves. Matthew 7:12
So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
i teached him this, ITALY:
hmm i guess not after all =/
The Gingerbread Man i have him for Christmas before we were together.
his medals...
his old old wallet
this is it, the following ones are random things he gave me. inside this white little box contains all the unforgettable memories and things he treasures the most. thats why he said i would cry =)
i called him PO because he looked like kungfu panda. AHAHAHAHA
the bear he drew for me 
