MY 20th BIRTHDAY! HEHEHEHE.... FASTER WISH ME LA... AND BUY ME MY PRESENT!
Wednesday, April 21, 2010
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
I Like it.... Very Much!
guess what, i just woke up not long ago, then, chatting with eemay and lee choo, then she said she updated her blog dy, so i just go and see lor, though i can predict that it is a post about me wan la, but i never expected this. this is so so so so so so so touching.. i and really did cried out.
http://leechootan.blogspot.com/2010/04/giving-you-my-lovesamantha.html
I Thank God for u My dear dear Friend. hehehehehe.
i wish i had known u earlier =')
xoxo,
Sam
http://leechootan.blogspot.com/2010/04/giving-you-my-lovesamantha.html
I Thank God for u My dear dear Friend. hehehehehe.
i wish i had known u earlier =')
xoxo,
Sam
Monday, April 19, 2010
Hey guys!
what have u all been up to lately? im doing nothing, read a few chapters of 2 samuel then i gave up.... haih... why? coz i can memorize so detail, and 24 chapters are too much. i hate bible quiz... LOL. oh, for those of u, who wanting to learn make up or learn anything la, i found out that youtube is the best, and i recently like this girl a lot, her name is, Michelle Phan. and she's really beautiful. hahahahaha.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDbEB9T-iUA
watch this, my favorite make up of hers. i wanna try this! LOL that is, if im succesful in this LOL.
tmr going to dinner with a friend, then friday going out with 2 of my favorite gals. hahahahahhaha, sing-ing k with them is a must when u go out. and they are even more excited than me. they always make me forget its MY birthday. LOL. shouldnt i be the one more excited than them? LOL.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rDbEB9T-iUA
watch this, my favorite make up of hers. i wanna try this! LOL that is, if im succesful in this LOL.
tmr going to dinner with a friend, then friday going out with 2 of my favorite gals. hahahahahhaha, sing-ing k with them is a must when u go out. and they are even more excited than me. they always make me forget its MY birthday. LOL. shouldnt i be the one more excited than them? LOL.
Thursday, April 15, 2010
EXAMS ARE OVER!
YES! well, psychology is not hard, and not easy. hahahahahha! but it is really very interesting, maybe its the way my tutor teach? coz i used to find this subject very boring. hahahahahah! and even more happy!
My Birthday is coming! heeheheheh and i cant wait to go out with my 2 gals... hehehehehehe. im waiting for ppl to call me out for the rest of my hols, coz i'll be free! so anyone wanna book me first? LOL... BUY ME A PRESENT! LOL.
okie, im out of things to blog. and so sorry i havent been bloggin lately, coz i was lazy and and buzy with exams. hahahahahaha.
Monday, April 5, 2010
Unconditional & Conditional Positive Regard
what is this? this is one of the subs im learning this sem which is psychology.
So what is Positive Regard? it is (love, care, respect, acceptance and warmth). this condional and unconditional is how u give ur love, care respect and etc. for the sake of those who still dunno how is conditional and unconditional, i will give u an example.
Lets say 2 students got their exam results.
CONDITIONAL + Reg. = (if u get straight As, i will buy u a handphone)
UNCONDITIONAL + Reg. = (its ok, next time try to do better)
means u give ur love unconditionally. my mom USED to treat me with Conditional + Regard. but only when i was in kindergarden. LOL. then primary, my Kai ma, also treats me like that, but just sometimes la. so i can say im filled with Unconditional + regard from ppl around me.
then my teacher said this to the class, " do you know, now majority children and adults are all having Conditional + Regards?" because parents tends to do this kind of condition to MAKE the children study hard, which is NOT healthy. so now the children will grow up to practice the same thing.
maybe thats why im not good in studies? and i dont have high expectation. LOL because my mom dont treat me like that after im in primary? LOL. i only remembered my mom told me, "even though u can study very good. get all As, but do u know how many excellent scholars are jobless? getting all As is just to make ur cert looks colourful, but in the end when u die, the colourful cert doesnt mean anything at all. so dont go for all these stuffs. instead, if u ar spiritually strong, God will definately provide u what u need, and learn to be contented with what u have. and not to be greedy."
my mom is not telling me not to study la, but she just said, as long as u studied enough for u to support urself and ur family. is enough. but of course getting a good job with ur good grades is a good thing if u can achieve. but its not point stressing urself out until u forget the most important thing in ur life. GOD. why i say this? many members i've seen la. once exam, dun wanna come church, those whose mother dont let is a different story la. this is why my mom had never stopped me from going to church and practices even during my exams. though i have to be honest. my spiritual life is not really good as well la. but im trying la. LOL.
and my tutor told the class, those who are in the conditional + regard, is pitiful, because they wont know how to give UNCONDITIONAL + regards to the their children the next time. coz they are being brought up that way. so my teacher challenged the class, try to treat ppl with unconditional = regard, and its not easy. and dont expect anything back.
and i feel Christians nowadays also gives ppl conditional + regard. agree?
i feel really lucky and happy. though at times i am quite greedy la. so which are u?
So what is Positive Regard? it is (love, care, respect, acceptance and warmth). this condional and unconditional is how u give ur love, care respect and etc. for the sake of those who still dunno how is conditional and unconditional, i will give u an example.
Lets say 2 students got their exam results.
CONDITIONAL + Reg. = (if u get straight As, i will buy u a handphone)
UNCONDITIONAL + Reg. = (its ok, next time try to do better)
means u give ur love unconditionally. my mom USED to treat me with Conditional + Regard. but only when i was in kindergarden. LOL. then primary, my Kai ma, also treats me like that, but just sometimes la. so i can say im filled with Unconditional + regard from ppl around me.
then my teacher said this to the class, " do you know, now majority children and adults are all having Conditional + Regards?" because parents tends to do this kind of condition to MAKE the children study hard, which is NOT healthy. so now the children will grow up to practice the same thing.
maybe thats why im not good in studies? and i dont have high expectation. LOL because my mom dont treat me like that after im in primary? LOL. i only remembered my mom told me, "even though u can study very good. get all As, but do u know how many excellent scholars are jobless? getting all As is just to make ur cert looks colourful, but in the end when u die, the colourful cert doesnt mean anything at all. so dont go for all these stuffs. instead, if u ar spiritually strong, God will definately provide u what u need, and learn to be contented with what u have. and not to be greedy."
my mom is not telling me not to study la, but she just said, as long as u studied enough for u to support urself and ur family. is enough. but of course getting a good job with ur good grades is a good thing if u can achieve. but its not point stressing urself out until u forget the most important thing in ur life. GOD. why i say this? many members i've seen la. once exam, dun wanna come church, those whose mother dont let is a different story la. this is why my mom had never stopped me from going to church and practices even during my exams. though i have to be honest. my spiritual life is not really good as well la. but im trying la. LOL.
and my tutor told the class, those who are in the conditional + regard, is pitiful, because they wont know how to give UNCONDITIONAL + regards to the their children the next time. coz they are being brought up that way. so my teacher challenged the class, try to treat ppl with unconditional = regard, and its not easy. and dont expect anything back.
and i feel Christians nowadays also gives ppl conditional + regard. agree?
i feel really lucky and happy. though at times i am quite greedy la. so which are u?
Saturday, April 3, 2010
Hello April!
One of my favorite month of the year.. hehehehe! why? My Birthday is coming! hehehe~
Today is Easter. and my voice i think recovered dy la coz i can finally reach high pitch, at first i thought it would be permanent, but then i keep praying and praying to God to restore back my voice. im very happy today. hahahah! dunno why just very happy.
and so sorry for not updating so often, one reason is i dunno what to update, and another because been bz with assignment. and after this week, finals are drawing near. this sem i have not been paying attention lately, so im really worried. haih. hopefully i can pass la, i dont have high expectation to myself when it comes to studying. LOL! pass is good enough for me. Only in studying la ok... LOL
alright, i have to continue tonight, sis is here to pick me up! muacks!
Hello everyone! im just home! so how was the cantata? hahaha. im quite tired now, so gonna blog a bit, facebook a bit, then i will hit the sheets. oh, forgot to remind u all, remember to buy present for me ah on my Birthday. ahahahahahahah! oh ya, for those who recorded the cantata will u all post up the videos? i wanna see... heheheheheheheh
Today is Easter. and my voice i think recovered dy la coz i can finally reach high pitch, at first i thought it would be permanent, but then i keep praying and praying to God to restore back my voice. im very happy today. hahahah! dunno why just very happy.
and so sorry for not updating so often, one reason is i dunno what to update, and another because been bz with assignment. and after this week, finals are drawing near. this sem i have not been paying attention lately, so im really worried. haih. hopefully i can pass la, i dont have high expectation to myself when it comes to studying. LOL! pass is good enough for me. Only in studying la ok... LOL
alright, i have to continue tonight, sis is here to pick me up! muacks!
Hello everyone! im just home! so how was the cantata? hahaha. im quite tired now, so gonna blog a bit, facebook a bit, then i will hit the sheets. oh, forgot to remind u all, remember to buy present for me ah on my Birthday. ahahahahahahah! oh ya, for those who recorded the cantata will u all post up the videos? i wanna see... heheheheheheheh
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