Please Ask Permission

Hey guys....

yes, my topic today is to ask everyone of you to ask permission before taking someone else's things. i am just a LITTLE BIT mad about what happened.. and actually this triggered my memory on how many times others took my things without my permission.

well what happened was.... mostly the things in my group locker is mine. i bought it for the use of the group. for deco and whatsoever, colour pens, tapes. sticky notes. scissors, some of them i bring from home. and just put it there for the convenience.  well one night in church doing room deco, i was looking for one stack of colour papers that i bought. but then it was missing. so i never actually thought someone would took it. but i thought it was missing or misplaced. yes... stupid me.

then i had to ask someone to buy a new stack. well, just now i found out who took it.. i was a little mad. but i cant blame them for everything, they did not know that i bought it with my own money. so i just explained. and the person, well... after knowing. the person did not say sorry at all. which this kindda makes me a little bit more mad. but still fine.

then this incident triggered my memory to make me remember something which made me really really angry..
there was this guy. who i already dont really like him from the start. and he kindda act like he is close to me. which im really not comfortable with.

One Fine Day, when i was really in a good mood. few of my friends were going to McDonald's drive through, so i asked them to buy me an apple pie. coz i suddenly missed that pie. so, after they came back, i saw the coke... then i said..

Me: i want one sip can?
Friend: oh. i give you la.. i dont drink wan...
Me: har.. you sure ah? can ah?
Friend: yea... im sure nah.. take la
Me: ^ ^ THANK YOU!!!

i wanted one sip because that moment i just realized its been ages since i drank coke. so i kindda miss the taste of coke too. then i was just putting it aside on the table, to do something. suddenly this guy...

just came over and looked at me. ( i wasnt looking at him) im not ignoring him la. not purposely la okie... and then he looked at the coke and said....

You fat la... i help you to drink. help you loose weight.

then i just looked at him. i looked at him not saying anything because he called me names a few times and i did not liked it. i didnt stop him is because his steals really fast.
he just took the straw and poke the cover. DRANK IT... AND WALKED AWAY.

i was so crazy angry at him. and no sorry at all, he does not think what he actually did was wrong. and his actions actually made me dislike him even more than before, if he would just asked. i would have just let him drink. i mean that makes me feel better. im not saying im very possessive but im so not comfortable in fact i HATE it when people treat me like that. its NO RESPECT! just because im younger than this guy he dont need to respect me?

just because he dated a close friend of mine. makes him my close friend too? he is SO NOT. taking things without asking permission is stealing. so next time. please ask permission before u take anything that is not yours.

well, even if its your really good friend, maybe learn to ask before you borrow their things. you may know that they wont mind, but asking for permissions is a respect. means you are aware of their rights and you respect that. even if its a sip of coke. respect is earned. it works both ways. with no age involved. if you dont respect someone, He/she will not respect you also. and its hard to earn it back. same as trust.

Did Not Ask Permission is a gentle sentence of the word. STEALING. it just makes something really bad, seems better to hear. which is so bad...