no i dont think so... why? well, because i've got loads of friends who dont respect me even if i respect them, no matter are they older than me, or same age as me or even younger than me. no matter in church friends or outside friends, they are all the same. so why should i treat these friends so good? is it all because im a Chritian thats why i have to treat them nice?
are friends that humiliate you or looked down on you are really friends? or they just dont care about your feelings and just do whatever they want to you just because they feel 'bigger' than you? i really trying to get these kind of ppl, and i really want to know how will they feel, when they are being treated the same way. and give them a taste of their own medicine.
HAHA! this is just a thought, im not being humiliated or anything. because i was just discussing with a Sis in Christ about these kind of ppl who are some in church, and some outside of church, then we really talked a lot. and we discuss about, ppl like that in church, will give a very very big influence to new and old members of the church, and they will follow the footstep. and then sooner or later. Christians wont be as nice as ppl thought they are. so we will be giving a bad impression on ppl right?
i for one, is a person who looks on relationship VERY important. any relationships like friends, family, BGR. is also important. to me, friends does not hurt friends.
so. i wanna say sorry, if i ever ever hurt you, but for Pei Tze, you are so irresistable to tease la. LOL. but im sorry la wei~ i will try to control myself and try not to do that again.
then i read before a few articles on suicidal, quite sometime ago la... then some also because friends treat them bad then they kill themselves, or being betrayed. i feel, if that is my friend who died because of me treating the person badly, then means i killed my friend lor? HAHA!
then we came out with WHY some ppl treat others like that. so some ppl might be thinking:
1. Aiyah! so friend dy, nevermind wan la!
2. They just wanna get rid of the person
3. They think themselves are very "BIG". maybe like dai ga jie la.
so do we really know the person dont mind? then Pei Tze, pls tell me you mind or not la okie? LOL. and as a Christian, we are suppose to encourage NOT discourage and stumble others. this is also a remind to me. coz so far... i know i treat Pei Tze pretty badly la. LOL. =p
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